Sunday Salon: the Zen of Blogging

For the first session last Saturday at KidlitCon, MotherReader took us through a series of introspective questions about blogging and our fundamental purpose. I thought it’d be interesting to share the questions, as well as some of my thoughts (from my jotted notes) on them.

1. Why are you blogging? Initially — and it’s still my main purpose — I started blogging as a way to keep track of what I read. But, in the (nearly) five years since I started, some of my reasons why have changed. This is what I wrote down: because I love the community and the friendships; because — honestly — I like free books (well, I do); because I like to write about books; because it’s fun!; because I want to share my love of books, and spread the word about books I love; and because I love it when there’s a good discussion, a give and take of ideas.

2. What do you have to share in your blogging that is unique to you? I had a harder time with this one; I really don’t see much of what I do as “unique”: there are other bloggers out there doing exactly what I do, and are much better (and more “popular”) at it. But, I realized over the course of the weekend that I need to just embrace my unique traits — that I’m a mom of four girls and that I live in Kansas! — even if they’re not what I would have chosen for myself. The other things I think I have to offer are my honesty, and just being a fan of what everyone else does.

3. Who are you blogging for; who is your audience? I’m selfish: I am bloggging for ME, first and foremost. After myself, I am blogging for other readers, whether or not they are parents looking for books for their kids, or other lovers of whatever it is I love. And then, I’m just looking to spread the word about the fabulous writing in middle grade and YA books out there, to whomever will listen.

4. Where do you see your blog among the other blogs? Again, I had a hard time with this one. From the start, I’ve never quite fit in a particular “category”. Mine is a review blog, definitely. But of what? I read too much adult fiction to be truly kidlit, and I read too much kidlit to be a truly adult blogger. I’m too eclectic to fit in anywhere, and while that’s frustrating sometimes, I don’t think I’d have it any other way.

5. When are you going to revisit your mission? Um, it would actually help, I think, if I had a mission. I do seem to revisit why I blog about once a year or so, when I catch the blogging “flu”. I have been seriously rethinking things (it’s a work in process), including the idea of quitting altogether, as I’ve approached my 5-year anniversary. Bear with me as I try to figure things out. MotherReader did stress that it’s important to keep in mind not only why you’re blogging, but to revisit that regularly, to make sure that it’s still a fitting reason, and to see if you’re achieving what you’ve set out to do.

6. How are you going to change or support your blogging mission? Again, I think what I need to do here is perhaps come up with something specific. I don’t know. I am going to go through and refine my blogging policies and procedures (something that’s not only a side effect of the conference, but of the FTC guidelines) — as soon as my life settles down! I do need to be more specific about what books I am willing to accept from publishers/blog tours/authors, for sure. Other than that, I’m still thinking.

So, any general thoughts? What would your answers be to these questions?

Something, Maybe

by Elizabeth Scott
ages: 13+
First sentence: “Everyone’s seen my mother naked.”
Review copy given to me by the author at KidlitCon 09.
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Hannah has the most obnoxious parents on the planet. Her mother spends the day in various states of undress chatting over webcam with fans of her long-canceled TV show. Her father is Jackson, reality TV star, philanderer, and all-out jerk. Hannah has spent the past five years, ever since she and her mother moved to Slaterville after the death of Hannah’s stepfather Jose, trying to be invisible. And she’s mostly succeeded.

Except that means she doesn’t really talk to her crush (her “soul-mate”), Josh, whether at work or at school. However, her invisibility (or her terribly outrageous parents) doesn’t stop Finn — obnoxious, irritating Finn — from talking to Hannah. It’s everything she can do to keep it all together when it seems everyone around her is slowly falling apart.

Well, actually, that’s not quite right. Something, Maybe is a straight up romance, the kind of book that you’d expect from Sarah Dessen or Maureen Johnson. And as a straight up romance, it works wonderfully. Yes, it’s a bit predictable — I figured out how the ending would go and there was really no surprises, even with her incredibly wacky parents — but, it’s a good, solid, enjoyable, fun, and yes, hot (or at least I found it to be hot) romance. Aside from the parents, I found the relative lack of disturbed, broken, or otherwise damaged characters to be quite refreshing. They’re pretty normal teens doing pretty normal teen stuff. Works for me.

And you can’t ask much more of that out of a YA romance, can you?

Lips Touch Three Times

by Laini Taylor/Illus. by Jim Di Bartolo
ages: 12+
First sentence: “There is a certain kind of girl the goblins crave.”
Review copy picked up from the ARC exchange table at KidlitCon 09.
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Wow.

Oh, I knew Laini Taylor had a fabulous imagination, having adored both Blackbringer and Silksinger, but, really: wow.

This one is three short stories in which the only connection is the act of kissing. Taylor explores what that “means”, but because it’s Laini Taylor, the exploration is not what you’d expect. Or maybe you would, if you’d read her other stuff. In short, it’s weird, wild, entrancing and just plain fabulous. Without giving too much away…

The first story, “Goblin Fruit”, takes something that every girl wants — to be noticed by the popular, cute boy — and turns it ever-so-slightly sinister. Kizzy has a weird immigrant family, one that she’s embarrassed about. It’s all she can do to avoid their practices, beliefs, superstitions, especially those of her (now-dead) grandmother, who believed quite strongly that there are goblins out there waiting to capture your soul. Kizzy tries to live a normal life, even from the sidelines of her high school, but she wants. Wants — to be popular, to be in the arms of the cute boy — so badly it’s palpable. So, when Jack Husk — beautiful, amazing, wonderful Jack Husk — shows up and pays attention to her, she goes with it. It’s got a bit of an open ending: what really does happen to Kizzy, but it doesn’t really matter. In this story, it’s the getting there that counts.

The second story, “Spicy Little Curses”, was my favorite. Taylor played off of Hindu religion and myth on this one, not only setting the story in Imperialist India, but giving us a devil in Hell who thrives off of making life (and death) miserable for humans. There’s a human liaison to Hell who tries to temper what this devil does, but one day — in exchange for twenty two souls — she allows the devil to curse the daughter of the Political Agent. The curse: if she ever speaks, she’ll kill everyone in the sound of her voice. She manages never to speak, but of course, she grows up into a lovely young woman and a soldier falls in love with her. There is not a happy outcome (again, of course), but the twists and turns and the language (oh, the language!) make it simply a joy to read.

And, finally, “Hatchling”. It’s the longest of the three stories, the most developed, the most interesting world-building that I’ve read in a while. Taylor takes were-lore and vampire-lore and develops it in a new and fascinating way in giving us the Druj. Not quite werewolves (and yet they shape shift), not quite vampires (and yet they use and abuse humans for their own pleasure), they terrorize and terrify humans. Mab was one of those, and for some reason, she managed to escape from the Queen. She was pregnant at the time and with her daughter, Esme, she has been in hiding ever since. Fourteen years later, Esme wakes up one morning with one blue eye and one brown eye. This not only terrifies Mab, but leads Emse to the destiny that she never knew she had, changing the way the Druj interact with each other and the world in the process.

I know I didn’t quite capture the wonderfulness that is this book. But it truly is amazing.

Emma-Jean Lazarus Fell Out of a Tree

by Lauren Tarshis
ages: 8-12
First sentence: “Emma-Jean Lazarus knew very well that a few of the seventh-grade girls at William Gladstone Middle School were criers.”
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Quirky.

Really. That’s the best way to describe both Emma-Jean Lazarus and this book.

See, Emma-Jean is a seventh-grade Spock. She’s highly logical, rational and prefers to just observe her classmates rather than actually participate in the drama. That is, until one day she stumbles upon Colleen crying in the bathroom. Colleen has a problem: the popular, yet mean Laura is trying to undercut Colleen’s friendship with Kaitlin. Emma-Jean realizes that she can fix it, and so… she does. Which sets off a chain of events, including Emma-Jean getting ambitious enough to (try and) fix other problems, that eventually lead to Emma-Jean interacting (at least a little bit) more with her peers.

It’s not much of a plot, and it does fall prey to the typical middle school stereotypes (why do all the popular girls have to be mean?). Yet, I think, because of who Emma-Jean is, and the way she is, the book works. It’s sweet and funny and rings true to middle school. I’m not sure if kids would like it (I should try it out on C and see what she thinks) — it is quirky, after all — but as an adult, I was completely charmed by Emma-Jean and her story.

Alvin Ho: Allergic to Camping, Hiking and Other Natural Disasters

by Lenore Look/Illustrations by LeUyen Pham
ages: 7-10
First sentence: “You will know some things about Me if you have read a book called Alvin Ho: Allergic to Girls, School, and Other Scary Things.”
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Is it too much to say that I still adore Alvin?

One of the tricky things about sequels, I think, is getting it right the second time. Writing a book that is just as adorable, just as funny, just as interesting as the first one? Not an easy task. And yet, Lenore Look (with much help from LeUyen Pham) does. Alvin is spot-on, hilarious, adorable, fun, sweet, and plain great to read.

This time, Alvin’s dad decides that he hasn’t done a great job of instilling a love of nature in Alvin (spurred by a time-traveling adventure of Alvin’s with Henry David Thoreau), and plans a camping trip. As you can imagine (well, if you haven’t read the first one, you can’t), this does not bode well with Alvin. Camping is bad. There are natural disasters. Bears. Sleeping outside. Germs. Trees. Inside is a good place to be.

And yet, after some wonderful mishaps at school (oh, how the recess camping “game” made me laugh…), Alvin and his little sister, Anibelly, go camping with their dad. After some prepping by older brother Calvin and getting Uncle Dennis’s super-duper awesome Batman ring, Alvin’s still not quite ready…but ends up going anyway. And,well, has an Alvin-tastic time: aliens, thunderstorms, bear traps, and best of all, sleeping out under the stars.

That doesn’t mean it was “fun” for Alvin. For me, though, it was a blast. (Maybe it’s because I didn’t actually go camping?)

(Just for the record: because this is a Cybils nominee, I’ve been asked to make sure y’all know this is my opinion only, and not that of the panel.)

Library Loot #41

Follow up from last week: thanks for all the recommendations! I’ve saved them all, but didn’t check any out because M has decided that she’s interested in Chaim Potok, and has moved all the books we have of his upstairs to her room. She seems to be enjoying them, too.

So this week is fairly small…

For A/K:
Dora Climbs Star Mountain (Dora the Explorer)
When the Moon Forgot, by Jimmy Liao
The Nine Lives of Rotten Ralph, by Jack Gantos/Illus. by Nicole Rubel
Wag a Tail, by Lois Ehlert
Dinosaur Starts School, by Pamela Duncan Edwards/Illus. by Deborah Allwright

For me (and anyone else who wants to read them):
The Beast of Blackslope (The Sherlock Files), Tracy Barrett
Born to Fly, by Michael Ferrari
Operation Redwood, by S. Terrell French
Neil Armstrong is My Uncle and Other Lies Muscle Man McGinty Told Me, by Nan Marino
Strawberry Hill, by Mary Ann Hoberman
The Last Newspaper Boy in America, by Sue Corbett
Winnie’s War, by Jenny Moss

The roundup is either at Reading Adventures or A Striped Armchair. Obligatory FTC love: the links are provided through my Amazon Associates account. If you click through and actually purchase one of these books, I’ll get a teeny, tiny payment. But, since no one ever does, and it’s SO much easier using the associates account to put up these links, I’m going to keep doing it.

*Ones that M eventually read.
**Picture books we really liked.

The Brilliant Fall of Gianna Z

by Kate Messner
ages: 10-13
First sentence: “Forty one minutes to cross-country practice.”
I received the ARC from Bloomsbury.
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Seventh grader Gianna Zales loves art and running, especially cross-country. However, she’s not so good at deadlines, and her spot at cross-country sectionals is in jeopardy: if she doesn’t get her science project — collecting and cataloging 25 different leaves — completed and in on time, then her spot is going to go to arrogant, popular Bianca. Which Gianna doesn’t like, because in her own words: sparkly girls don’t run. Runners do.

Over the course of a week, her best friend Zig tries to keep her focused and spending time searching for leaves, except it’s not as easy as it sounds. A funny thing called life keeps getting in the way, whether it’s her father’s job — he runs a mortuary — or her beloved Nonna’s increasingly alarming inability to remember things, or her mother’s rising stress level and denial about Nonna’s problems.

It’s a quiet book, funny at times, as Gianna struggles to not only complete her leaf project in time but to deal with the impending change with Nonna. What Messner does best with the book is give a sense of place: the sights, sounds, smells and feel of a Vermont fall literally popped off the page. Messner also helps by intertwining Robert Frost poems amid the science and running: it broadens the scope of the book and grounds it in ways that it wouldn’t be without the poetry connection.

The only real complaint is the stereotypical plot: Gianna is neither popular or unpopular, in spite of her running prowess, and has to waffle between being friends or not with the two outcast girls, Ellen and Ruby; the friendship-but-is-there-more with Zig; the overbearing and irritating mom; the popular versus nerdy conflict with Bianca (two guesses who gets to go to sectionals; it’s not difficult to figure out).

Still, even though it was pretty predictable, it is an enjoyable read. Enough so, that I’m looking forward to what Messner has to offer in the future.

(Just for the record: because this is a Cybils nominee, I’ve been asked to make sure y’all know this is my opinion only, and not that of the panel.)

Childhood and A Love of Reading

This ran in Estella’s Revenge back in August 2007. I thought I’d reprint it here for National Day on Writing and post it to the gallery A Lifetime of Reading. Enjoy.

It’s no secret that I enjoy — no, love — middle-grade and young adult fiction.

This is not a passion that I have always had. It’s not that I didn’t read as a child; I did. A lot. But after I got through the usuals — Little House on the Prairie, Harriet the Spy, Anne of Green Gables, the Ramona books, Tales of Fourth Grade Nothing, and probably others I can’t remember — I read a lot of junk. Or, what I would now consider junk.

Then, by the time I hit 7th grade, I’d left YA fiction behind for Piers Anthony, Ray Bradbury and Edgar Allen Poe (my morbid phase). From there, it was the Agatha Christie obsession that lasted for several years. And by the time high school hit, it was mostly reading for English classes; I’m not sure I read for fun between 10th grade and sometime in college.

It wasn’t until about 12 years ago that I discovered all that I had missed.

It started innocently enough, in a conversation with a friend who asked if I’d ever read Beauty by Robin McKinley. No, I replied, I hadn’t. She loaned me that, along with Susan Cooper’s The Dark is Rising series, and I was hooked. Soon, I was picking up children’s books from the library (my oldest at the time was still a baby) and the bookstore and devouring them. Because I realized something: these books, these kid’s books, were good.

I think somewhere along the line, I was convinced that books for young adults, for children, were considered immature, and if you were an adult (or wanted to be), then you needed to get out of the kids section. I think this is a common perception; I have been asked numerous times if I read middle-grade and young-adult fiction because I’m “prescreening” books for my kids. My blog has been dismissed by some because I read too many kids books. (Ironically, it’s also not that respected in the kidlit world because I review adult books, too. There’s no winning.) The assumption is that there just can’t be anything in these books that I, as an adult woman, would enjoy or be satisfied by.

Yet, I have often found that it is the adult books are less than satisfying. Authors that write for adults–or at least, those that want to get noticed by big-name reviewers–tend to either get lost in the words of the book, rather than developing characters or storylines; or, they heap on so much “adult” stuff (sex, language, violence), that in the end I’m left wondering where the story was. For me, for the type of reader I am, the story and the characters are critical to the success of a book. I enjoy a beautifully written book, but the words themselves rarely draw me in (perhaps this is partly a result of my education in journalism rather than English). However, it’s all about the story.

And the truth is, some of the best stories out there are being written for children and young adults. There’s the obvious examples of J.K. Rowling or Philip Pullman or Roald Dahl. But it goes deeper than that. Ann Rinaldi spins convincing and interesting historical tales, usually featuring some strong and admirable heroine. Christopher Paul Curtis tells stories of being black in America that are engaging and challenging at the same time. Rick Riordan has come up with a brilliant idea of bringing the Greek myths to life (even though his series has the obvious Harry Potter comparisons). And Francis Hardinge’s debut book, Fly By Night, had me hanging on every word until the end.

In addition to the stories that are being told by current authors, I’ve managed to discover jewels that I passed over as a child. I never read The Hobbit or Treasure Island (I was too judgmental; they were “boy books”). I rediscovered All-of-a-Kind-Family and The Westing Game. I found out what choice opportunities reading The Mixed of Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler, Tuck Everlasting and Railway Children were. Or the challenge in reading The Devil’s Arithmatic.

Yes, my life wouldn’t have ended if I’d never read any of those books. But, my life wouldn’t have ended if I’d never read How Green Was My Valley or Zorro either. The point is that my life was enriched by reading those books. They brought me something that I, in turn, wanted to share with my family and friends. They had the power of a good story, well told.

And in the end, that’s what has brought us together as people since the beginning of time: the ability to tell stories and learn from them. Whether or not they’re supposed to be for kids.

The Princetta

by Anne-Laure Bondoux
ages: 12+
First sentence: “A few months ago you summoned me to the Council Chamber.”
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Malva dreams of adventure. She’s the crown princess of Galnicia, and she loathes being a puppet in her parent’s grand plans. She hates sitting, looking perfect and pretty and dreams of escape. So, on the night before her engagement party (to some stuffy old prince), she and her maid escape from the castle.

Thus begins The Princetta, a book in the tradition of Grand Fantasy: high adventure, romance, princesses, noble sailors, evil revenge-seeking counts, giants, sirens, mystical lands, battles, storms… in fact, it reminded me a lot of The Princess Bride. Except, it didn’t quite work.

I don’t know if it was the translation — it was originally written in French — or the story. But, honestly, about halfway through the book I started skimming because it was boring. There was a lot of telling, rather than showing, and Malva — for all her feisty ideals — wasn’t terribly interesting. For all the characters to juggle, it was managing okay, until they got to the mystical Archipelago, where they were to get Tested and Tried. The book was only half done, and I had no idea how it was going to manage for the rest of the (overlong) 430 pages. I skimmed enough to get the gist of it, read the ending (which wasn’t predictable at all, which surprised me) and called it quits.

I do wish it had been better, though.

There and Back Again: Kidlit Con

Oh, my.

I have absolutely no way to even begin to wrap my brain around KidlitCon, or even figure out remotely how to report on it. So, how about a few Book Nut awards?

Most awesome blogger in the whole world for putting this fabulous conference together: MotherReader, of course.

Best announcers: FatherReader and TeenReader and KidReader. Nothing like a lot of humor (and organization and creativity) to make a charity raffle memorable.

Best panel (even though it wasn’t, really): The FTC sent a representative to talk to us about the guides/regulations. Great round ups/discussions at A Chair, A Fireplace and A Teacozy, Galleysmith, and Charlotte’s Library (among others).

Best presentation (since it wasn’t a panel): Greg’s discussion of social media and how it can work for you. It was geared more towards the authors in the room, but it was very fascinating and interesting and helpful and useful. It’s all about connection. Really.

Best people to hang with: everyone. But, specifically…
Michelle at Galleysmith,

Maureen at Confessions of a Bibliofore,

Charlotte at Charlotte’s Library, Jennie at BiblioFile,

and Abby at Abby(the)Librarian (yay for finally meeting her!).

They totally made my day.

Best laugh: Varian Johnson. I want to have him and his wife over for dinner because he’s interesting, fun, and his laugh just makes me want to laugh.

Best idea: getting involved. There’s so many ways — that goes for you non-kidlit people out there — to share a love of reading. I won’t go into them now (one for the future that I want to participate in, and should have last year, is Share a Story, Shape a Future), but there is one relevant participation thing: tomorrow — October 2oth is National Day on Writing. The lovely ladies at A Year of Reading have set up a forum called A Lifetime of Reading for you to submit your stories about your reading experiences. It doesn’t have to be fancy — just go through old blog posts and find one about reading that you’d like to share. And then do it. 🙂

I could go one about the fabulous time I had and how much I want to go back, and how exciting it was to meet everyone (including my Nookish friends Corinne, Cami and Kelly, even though they weren’t actually at KidlitCon)

and how many people lived up to what I thought they’d be, and how weird it was being known as the person from Kansas with four girls (just embrace it, don’t fight it!)… but I won’t.

I am going to try really, really, really hard to go next year, though.