The Sharper Your Knife, the Less You Cry

Love, Laughter and Tears at the World’s Most Famous Cooking School
by Kathleen Flinn
age: adult
First sentence: “As a little girl, while other children played house, I played restaurant.”

When, at age 36, Kathleen Flinn’s mid-level corporate job was eliminated, she was faced with a choice: get another mid-level corporate job somewhere, or… pursue a life-long dream of going to school at the cooking school Le Cordon Bleu in Paris. Encouraged by her boyfriend — who puts his life on hold to move to Paris to be with her — she chooses the latter. This is her story.

Equal parts food book, travel book and memoir, this book totally and completely engrossed me.

I think I liked the food parts best, though. Not only is the book littered with recipes (delicious, gourmet recipes that I will probably never make, but I can dream about), but Kathleen is meticulous with detail about her time in the cooking school. She doesn’t hesitate to tell about her failures (like the time the “Grey Chef” shouted at her, or the time she dropped the roast duck on the floor) but she doesn’t gloat over her successes (like when the head chef of Le Doyen singles her out over her classmates to chat with for 20 minutes). It’s all matter of fact: this happened, she had this amazing experience, she lived this dream, wouldn’t you like to read about it?

But more than the recipes, or even her cooking experiences (I’ve been inundated with French food in books lately; at least here she explains what it all means!), I enjoyed her trips into the Paris markets. The sights, smells, sounds, connections of European markets; it was sensory heaven. And it made me realize (not for the first time) that we’re really missing out with grocery stores here in the States…

I did enjoy the other aspects of the book, too: I liked her tales of the many house guests (even the horrible ones; they were good for a cringe and a laugh) they had while living in Paris; I liked the love story between her and Mike (whom she met and fell into a relationship before Paris), and their whirlwind marriage. I liked her relationships with her classmates, the different personalities and expectations and goals of each person.

It did get a bit too life-preachy for me, especially near the end, where Flinn was trying to make some Big Moral out of her experience, when I would have been happier with her experience as is, without the life morals. But, that said, there’s always something inspiring about people who leave the corporate track and do Something Different with their lives, pursuing a dream and, ultimately, succeeding. And that Flinn spins a good tale about her experience is just a happy bonus.

Geeky Haiku Review

I was going to do Option A: Be a kid!, for this week’s geek, but then I got this book in the mail, and it just screamed for a haiku review, so I’m doing:

Option B: Be a poet!

Review a book you’ve read recently in haiku. (It doesn’t need to be a poetry book you’re reviewing, any book will do.) See Emilyreads for an idea of what I mean.

The book:

Legs Talk
by D.E. Boone
ages: adult, probably.
First sentence: “Some people call it shopping.”

The haiku:
Captioned leg photos
Tell of a relationship.
It goes nowhere fast.

That’s harder than it looks.

Library Loot #13

I found my self control this week! YAY! (That means there’s really nothing interesting here, unless you like picture books…) I should be back to “normal” next week…

For A/K:
Bats at the Library, Brian Lies**
Cat and Mouse
, Ian Schoenherr
Who Made This Cake?, Chihiro Nakagawa/Illus. Junji Koysoe
Everybody Bonjours!, Leslie Kimmelman/Illus. Sarah McMenemy**
Kipper’s Toybox, Mick Inkpen
Angelina at the Palace, Katharine Holabird/Illus. Helen Craig**
All in a Day, Cynthia Rylant/Illus. Nikki McClure
Little Mouse’s Birthday Cake, Thacker Hurd

The roundup is either at Out of the Blue or A Striped Armchair.

**Picture books we really liked.

Teaser Tuesday, April 7

I’m going to squeeze in an announcement here: April’s Estella’s Revenge is up! My three reviews (all Jane Austen related!): The Darcys and the Bingleys (I’m really quite proud of this review…), Pemberley by the Sea, and Jane Austen Ruined My Life. Go check them out, as well as all the other good stuff in this month’s issue.

Now, on to Teaser Tuesday…

  • Grab your current read.
  • Let the book fall open to a random page.
  • Share with us two (2) “teaser” sentences from that page, somewhere between lines 7 and 12.
  • You also need to share the title of the book that you’re getting your “teaser” from … that way people can have some great book recommendations if they like the teaser you’ve given!
  • Please avoid spoilers!
  • From The Sharper Your Knife, the Less You Cry, by Kathleen Flinn, p. 95:

    That afternoon, I nurse my consomme and finish yet another round of disappointing puff pastry. As I do, I consider how wonderful it would be to toss some hamburger, egg whites, and tomatoes into the soup of life.

    The roundup is as Should Be Reading.

    Caddy Ever After

    by Hilary McKay
    ages: 10+
    First sentence: “Today I fell asleep in class.”

    Things that are still true about the Casson books:
    I adore Rose.
    They make me utterly and unquestionably happy.
    I find them hilarious in a wacky, British sort of way.
    Eve is daffy and Bill’s a cad (though much less so in this book, if only because they show up much less).

    The basic plot: Indigo likes Saffy’s friend Sarah, and so he finagles a way to sell tickets to the Valentine Dance. He sets Saffy up with Oscar. Saffy and Rose get “lost” on the moor (stranded is more like it) because of Oscar’s lousy car. Oscar and his older brother Alex rescue them and bring them home. Caddy’s waiting there, and she decides Alex is The One (mostly because he’s got permission to go to China to photograph panda bears). Except he’s not Darling Michael, to whom Rose promised not to let Caddy get married. Hence, Rose’s (in)famous wedding destruction at the end of the book.

    Things that are different from the previous Casson books:
    The chapters alternate between narrators (going, in order: Rose, Indigo, Saffy, Caddy, Rose again). I loved each voice, but I espeically loved that Rose was still omnipresent.
    The appendices are really the best part.
    I was expecting a huge climax at the church (because I read Forever Rose first), but didn’t get it, but it really didn’t matter. It was still funny.
    There was a subplot about Saffy and Sarah not being friends any more becuase of a star balloon, but that was pretty silly (well, of course), and not really worth mentioning. Indigo was pretty awesome, though.

    And, yes, I’m going to read Forever Rose again, just so I can put it in it’s proper place. And do a proper “review”.

    OCOC Giveaway…

    Unfortunately, due to mailing costs and the state of our finances (several expensive emergencies — not the least of which is a new pair of glasses for me!) have made it impossible for met to continue doing this… So, sadly, I’m suspending the giveaways (even though the closet isn’t remotely cleaned out) for the time being. Thanks to all who participated… Hopefully, they’ll be up and running again sometime this summer.

    2009 Challenge #2: Jewish Literature

    I managed to get through this one. I know there are some wonderful Jewish literature books out there (I’ve read them), but I didn’t particularly love anything on my list.

    1. Yellow Star, by Jennifer Rozines Roy
    2. The Diary of a Young Girl, Anne Frank
    3. Maus I and Maus II, Art Spiegelman
    4. The Bee Season, Myla Goldberg

    I did admire Yellow Star and the Maus books, but I didn’t love them. Ah, well. Maybe next year.

    The Diary of a Young Girl

    by Anne Frank
    ages: 12+
    First sentence: “On Friday, June 12th I woke up at six o’clock and no wonder; it was my birthday.”

    Ack.

    Let me say that again.

    Ack.

    If I had read this book when I was 12 or 13, I would have totally loved it. I would have completely identified with Anne, with her plight, with her suffering, with her angst, with her. I would have cried at the end. I would have swooned over her relationship with Peter, and the difficulties it presented.

    But now…

    I just felt like she’s a whiny teenager who wasn’t completely grateful that she didn’t end up in a concentration camp for the whole war, and that she spent too much time whining about how horrible her parents (and the Van Daans) are. I felt like the book is only famous because she (in a cruel irony) died in a concentration camp three months before the Allieds liberated it. Yes, it was human, and real, and sometimes insightful. But I couldn’t stand her. Or the book.

    Which makes me feel guilty.

    Oh, well. I missed the boat on this one.

    Well-Seasoned Reader Challenge Roundup

    The final edition! It’s been TONS of fun going on this journey with you all! Thanks so much for your participation and your reviews; it’s been so enjoyable going through them all. Before I get to the final review roundup there’s a few items of business.

    Finishers since last week are: Bridget, Cheryl, Eva, Kristi, Katrina Callista, Trisha, Kim and Grilsgood.

    And for the prizes…

    The grand prize of a book from Powells is: Beth F!

    And the two finisher prizes (of nuts or chocolate) go to: Lucia and Sandra!

    Congrats!!

    And now, to the last of the reviews:

    Eva did all three reviews and wrap-up in the same post. She had the novel idea of focusing all her reading around one country, and chose Burma/Myanmar. She read From the Land of Green Ghosts, by Pscal Khoo Thwe, of which she writes, “It’s a compelling story, written with an idiosyncratic and appealing voice, about a place most of us will never visit (I know I won’t, until the junta loses power-I don’t want to help their cash flow.). And while it isn’t always happy, in the balance it’s certainly much more positive than negative. Thwe allows the reader to really enter into his life and world, and I am profoundly grateful to have been able to spend time with him.” She also read Burmese Days, by George Orwell and Finding George Orwell in Burma, by Emma Larkin. Click through to read her reviews; suffice to say, she spoke highly of them all.

    Frances read Michael Pollan’s In Defense of Food, saying “Some of this may sound like things you have heard or read before, but much of it is different, and the material is transformed into a page-turner by Pollan’s precise journalistic prose. No extra fat in the book, so to speak.”

    Heather read Last of the Angels, by Fadhil Al Azzawi. She writes, “When I finished the book, I was left confused and disappointed but as time has passed, I’ve come to like it more and more. This is not a book to pick up lightly and some research should be done beforehand. It reads like a much longer book than it actually is (only 276 pages) and it is not easy to follow the entire time, but I really think it is a worthwhile chance to explore a culture so incredibly different from our own but that is now so closely linked with our fate.”

    Tiny Librarian read Queen of the Road, by Doreen Orion. The end verdict: “A fun, funny, interesting book that may make you think about your own priorities in life.”

    For her final selection, Katrina read Baghdad Diaries, by Nuha al-Radi. She wasn’t impressed, writing, “I was expecting a lot from The Bagdhad Diaries by Nuha Al-Radi and was very disappointed. I had seen this book talked about a lot a few years ago and was expecting a moving account of life in the war…Yes she does also describe the lack of food, the extreme poverty and the increase in cancer as a result of the war but I never really felt fo/ her.”

    And it wouldn’t be a week without Amira checking in, this time with Happy Nowruz: Cooking with Children to Celebrate the Persian New Year, by Najmieh Batmangli. She writes, “There are plenty of recipes, but it’s a lot more than a cookbook. I think a better subtitle might have been something along the lines of celebrating Nowruz with your children. Now, I know that many Americans don’t know what Nowruz is, but if you do and are interested in celebrating it, this is an excellent book to explain all aspects of Nowruz, for the entire 4 weeks.”

    Kim read one of my all-time favorites for her final book: My Name is Asher Lev, by Chaiam Potok. She wrote, “I was just fascinated by the characters, the culture and religion, and especially Asher and his relationships with his family and others whom he cares about.”

    Callista read The Bit of the Mango, by Maritu Kamara, of which, she writes, “The book doesn’t only address the war that went on in Sierra Leone and the casulaties of that war. It also addresses what little has happened to help those still in the country. Mariatu wrote this book to get the word out about what was happening and to clear up some misconceptions that were in some articles about her.” She also read The Flavor Bible, by Karen Page. She writes, “This isn’t your average cookbook. Instead of recipes to follow to the letter, this book contains charts to help you find flavor combinations. As you can see, this book truly is a FLAVOR BIBLE. This book is recommended for those who don’t want to follow ready-made recipes anymore but create their OWN recipes.”

    And, finally, Tricia linked to four more books: The Geography of Bliss, by Eric Wegner; The House on Tradd Street, by Karen White; Galway Bay, by Mary Pat Kelley; and Banker to the Poor, by Muhammad Yunus. I liked what Tricia wrote about The House on Tradd Street, “I think Karen White is a great storyteller. However, the writing was repetitive in parts and the typos were inexcusable. But, the plot was gripping and I’ll definitely read the next one in this series when it comes out in November.”

    Thanks again to everyone who made this challenge so great!

    Lock and Key

    by Sarah Dessen
    ages: 13+
    First sentence: “And finally,” Jamie said as he pushed the door open, “we’ve come to the main event. Your room.”

    Like with Elizabeth Scott, I’ve been feeling a need to read some Sarah Dessen, especially since she’s so beloved. So, again, I randomly plucked a book of hers off the library shelf, one that they just recently received, and went with it.

    And, as with Elizabeth Scott, I wasn’t disappointed.

    For the past 10 years has been moving around with her mom from place to place, never really quite making it, never really settling in. Now that Ruby’s nearly 18, all she can think about is getting out, being free. However, shortly in to the start of her senior year, Ruby’s mom disappears. No problem, Ruby thinks: she can get by until she’s 18. But things slowly break down, and her landlords find out and turn her in to social services, and she ends up with her sister, Cora, whom she hasn’t seen since Cora left for college 10 years ago.

    Suddenly, Ruby’s life is turned upside down: no longer is she scraping long with the bottom of the pack — the pot smokers, the dropouts. She’s going to a private school, living in a million-dollar house, courtesy of her entrepreneur brother-in-law. She has everything her mother couldn’t provide. Except… Ruby doesn’t trust any of it. She misses the familiarity of her old life, she doesn’t want to let anyone get close, she doesn’t trust anyone (especially her sister). All she wants to do is get out.

    I was wary of the book at first: Ruby’s not a particularly sympathetic character — understandable, considering her bad mother (again with the bad mothers! Ah, I suppose it must be for the sake of conflict…). But, what was fascinating to read — as well as subtle and well-written — was the de-icing of Ruby. She meets Nate, with whom she wants NO relationship, who ends up being her friend. And whom she ends up being able to help in a very big way. (Thankfully, there’s a bad dad to balance out the bad mom.) Ruby learns the meaning of family (again, not a blantant life lesson, but one that snuck in by the end of the book) and friendship. And yes, while it has a “money can solve all your problems” Cinderella aspect to it (Ruby would still be scraping the bottom if Jamie didn’t have money), it’s not overbearing. It’s mostly a book about expectations and trust and facing the unknown. And the romance, for what it’s worth, is really quite good, too.

    So, yeah, I can see what everyone is raving about with Sarah Dessen. I’ll definately be reading more of her books.