The End of an Era (for me)

They’re all gone. On Sunday, Andre Agassi played his final match of the US Open and retired from tennis.

That’s the last of the ones I loved watching as a kid. Pete, Stefan, Boris, Michael; yes, even Jimmy and John (there were the women too: Stefi, whom I loved to hate; Martina, the original; Aranxa, I think that’s how you spell her name). They all retired ages ago. Andre was, for the longest time, the lone holdout. Still playing great tennis, even when everyone thought he was past his prime. And in a game where the 20-somethings rule, Agassi still held his own.

I started watching Andre when I was 14, he was 16 and blew into the tennis world with a lot of hair, style and talent, but no work ethic. Back when he looked like this. I tried to find a picture (I had one on my wall!), but couldn’t. The commercial will have to do. (A confession: I even bought a Rebel camera only because Andre did commercials for them. How crass is that?)

The best years though, were the Pete and Andre rivalry. Though Pete won most of the matches, Andre was the only one who could keep Pete on his toes. Now, it’s all big serves and boring matches and Federer wins everything. (Well, so did Pete.) It wouldn’t be so bad if there was someone to rival him, but he so totally dominates, it’s boring. And the women can’t decide if they’re into fashion or playing the game. It just isn’t the same.

So, even though it’s been a while since I’ve actually watched a tennis match (hard to with kids around), I mourn the loss of Andre in the tennis world. Or, maybe it’s because the last of my childhood has finally grown up.

Fly by Night

I found this book through Four Obsessions, who found it through A Fuse #8 production, who declared it (back in February) to be the best children’s book of 2006. I’m not nearly as well-versed in children’s books as Fuse is (being a children’s librarian and all), but I do have to join in her enthusiasm for this book by Frances Hardinge. If all first books could be like this — shoot, if all books could be like this — the world would be a happy place.

A blurb about the story doesn’t do the book justice, but I’ll attempt it just the same. Mosca Mye, a 12-year-old girl, lives in the Fractured Realm with her aunt and uncle after her father’s death. She (accidentally) sets their mill on fire and heads out of town with Eponymous Clent, a poet, a cad, a shady but nice enough man. They head for Mandeloin, where they get involved in Nefarious Plots and have all sorts of Adventures. I know it doesn’t sound all that great. But, really it is.

Why? The words, for one. I loved the description of the relationship between Mosca and Saracen, Mosca’s pet goose whom no one else can get near:

However, Mosca and Saracen shared, if not a friendship, at least the
solidarity of the generally despised. Mosca assumed that Saracen had his
reasons for his persecution of terriers and his possessive love of the
malthouse roof. In turn, when Mosca had interrupted Saracen’s self-important
nightly patrol and scooped him up, Saracen had assumed that she, too, had
her reasons.

There are many wonderful little nuggets like that; it would take me too long to write them all. I loved that you didn’t quite know where everyone stood; even Mosca has questionable allegiances at times. There’s no clear-cut black and white. I loved the world which Hardinge created, with the Beloved and Birdcatchers and Sationers and Locksmiths all playing roles in this drama.

My only real complaint is the book cover Harper Collins chose for it. Across the front, there’s a banner: “Imagine a world in which all books have been BANNED!” Well, while not exactly untrue, it’s a bit misleading. In the Fractured Realm, the books aren’t banned, but rather heavily censored. In fact, that’s a major theme running through: what would happen in a world where the free exchange of ideas lead to violence? And then, when the people responsible for stopping the violence (in a violent manner), took it upon themselves to approve or disapprove of everything published? What kind of world would it become? There’s one quote from the head Staioner in Mandelion, talking to Mosca about her father:

“Your father had a brilliant mind — I have never known a keener. The hardest thing I ever had to do was to give the order for his books to be burned. ” He barked his laugh. “And the second hardest was persuading the Guild that they should not burn him as well as his books.”

It’s a good adventure and, in the end, a profound little book. Highly recommended.

The Man Who Ate Everything

This book by Jeffrey Steingarten, oddly enough, reminded me of people as I read it. It reminded me of my father (not exactly someone who pops into mind when reading a book about food), because of the very excellent chapter on ketchup (and I think my dad should read this book, if only for the chapter on ketchup). It also reminded me of hubby’s friends Nick and Scott, because Steingarten is, for better or for worse, as thoroughly obsessive about food as those two. And, I would probably be very self-conscious about cooking for them (though I think I’ve actually cooked for Scott, once, and if I remember right, he put Worcestershire sauce on the hamburger).

Anyway, this book is a collection of Steingarten’s food reviews/essays that he wrote for Vogue back in the early 90s. Some of them are excellent, like the aforementioned ketchup one. I’ve learned more than I need to know about mashing potatoes, vegetables (and how they’re out to kill us), fruit, bread, fruitcake (from his relatives in Salt Lake City, yes they’re Mormon), cooking from the back of the box, diets, wagyu beef…

I admit, I didn’t read the book cover to cover; after getting about halfway through, I got fed up and skipped around the rest of the book reading the chapters that interested me. But, I think this book is meant to be read like that. Or, at the very least, I didn’t lose anything by reading it that way. At any rate, it’s a bit of obsessive food fun. And I do like that.

Giddy

I’ve just spent some time today looking up books on the Wichita library’s website. I’m totally giddy because they had nearly every book I looked up. But Melissa, you say, that’s really not something to get all worked up about. Oh, but it is. Let me splain. I’ve kept a list in my library bag of recommended books (the ones y’all and others have recommended to me) and have, on occasion over the past several years, looked them up when I get to the library. Needless to say, they haven’t been there. Which is why my list now runs about 60 plus books. (Give or take a few.) I disovered this handy little feature of the website (can I tell you how nice it is to do this at home, and not at the library while stressing about where my kids are??) where I can create a list of all the books I’d like to read. So, I decided to go through my list and see how many were there. To be honest, I wasn’t expecting much. But one after another, the books were there. Now my list of books NOT at the library runs about 6.

I’m loving it.

One book (Youth Fiction style)

I thought the idea of this meme was fun so I thought I’d give it a whirl. I also thought, since youth fiction is what I enjoy most, that I’d limit myself to that.

1. One book that changed your life: Beauty, by Robin McKinley. It was the first youth fiction book I read as an adult, being recommended to me by a close friend. A close second is the Dark is Rising series by Susan Cooper. Both convinced me (granted this was more than 10 years ago) that the best writing out there is for youth, not adults.

2. One book you have read more than once: Oh, lots. Though I try not to read books more than once — too many to get through to spend too much time re-reading. The newest book I’ve read that stands up well to re-reads is The Goose Girl by Shannon Hale.

3. One book you would want on a desert island: Anything by Lois Lowry. And The Lord of the Rings and the Hobbit, though they’re techinically not youth fiction.

4. One book that made you laugh: Ah, I’m at a loss for a youth fiction book that was hands-down funny. Any suggestions? (The funniest book I’ve found is I’m a Stranger Here Myself, by Bill Bryson. I laugh no matter how many times I read it.)

5. One book that made you cry: Trite but true: The Bridge to Terabithia. I cry every time. I also bawled at the end of Half-Blood Prince, but only the first time.

6. One book you wish you had written: I think if I were to write a book it would either be like The Penderwicks, by Jeanne Birdsall or Stargirl, by Jerry Spinelli. If I were to write a book.

7. One book you wish had never been written: Princess Diaries, by Meg Cabot. The movie is better, and that’s saying a lot.

8. One book you are currently reading: The Man Who ate Everything, but that’s not youth fiction. Next up, Fly by Night, by Frances Hardinge. I’m excited about that one.

Enna Burning

Ah, normalcy. It allows me to actually get back to what I really enjoy. 🙂 I gave our library’s “hold” system (what they call inter-library loan) a whirl; for 25 cents a book I could have whatever I want from any library. And so, for one whole dollar, I came home with four books which are mine for a month. Not bad. Especially when you factor in that I spent NO time wandering the stacks with a two-and-a-half year old and an almost-five month baby. Sounds like money well spent to me.

So, Enna Burning, by Shannon Hale. While I like Hale’s writing, this one just didn’t quite gel for me. The basic plot picks up where Goose Girl left off, and develops on some of the ideas Hale played with in the first book. Enna — Princess Isi’s friend — returns home to the forest. After her mother dies, her brother — Liefer — comes home with a piece of vellum and some new-found abilities with fire. Soon, Bayern is at war, Liefer dies, Enna discovers how to work fire, and the rest of the book is spent with her dealing with it. Some of the ideas are interesting: if one could speak a “language” of nature, what would happen? Would it totally overwhelm you? What would it demand from you? What would it take to control it? Especially something like fire.

In the end, though, Enna just didn’t captivate me like Goose Girl did. I can’t really put my finger on it; Hale is an excellent storyteller, and it’s not a bad story. Maybe it just wasn’t all I was hoping it could be.

Gap Creek

I need to focus and actually write this. It’s been a busy week — M and C started school; it’s going well and it looks like we may become the proud parents of a cello (player) — and I’ve been meaning to get down to write this (shoot, we have DSL now; you think it would be easier) all week.

So. Gap Creek. By Robert Morgan. One of those Oprah books (I’ve yet to have a good experience with them.) Actually, it was for my church’s bookgroup (yay! a book group!) that I read it. And, it’s not bad. I kind of liked it. The story: Julie lives in the North Carolina Appalachian mountains in the late 1800s. She watches her brother and her father die. She works hard. She meets Hank, falls in love, moves to Gap Creek, South Carolina. Where she proceeds to Live Life. All sorts of trials happen: the man they live with is crumudgeony, he dies, they get swindled out of money, Hank is moody, the mother-in-law is cranky, the house floods, she delivers a premature baby, baby dies, and they Move On. There. Now you don’t have to read it.

I shouldn’t make fun of it. It really wasn’t a bad sort of time spent. It’s just that I’ve read similar stories that were written much better. And resonated much better. Which I think is the real problem here. Morgan put Julie through the paces, but I’m not sure if he ever really felt her. (Which begs the question: can men really write women well? Conversely, can women accurately write men?) If he did, I’m missing something, because I sure didn’t. But then, as we know, I often miss the boat on these Meaningful and Moving books.

The Twilight Zone

The last couple of nights I’ve woken with a start at 12:30 a.m. to find Baby K in bed with me, nursing. I get up after a while and put her back down in her room and go on with the rest of the night. The kicker: I have absolutely no memory of how she got in the bed in the first place. None. Nada. Can’t remember a thing. In fact, when I wake up, I think, “How did she get here?” (I know. I didn’t mean in that sense.) And the past couple of mornings, hubby (who likes to rehash the night, as if to emphasize just how bad it was), has insisted I got up and got K out of her crib and brought her back into bed with us.

What’s next, sleep driving?

Look Homeward America

The business of moving is a royal pain, and incredibly time consuming. I have spent the last two weeks running here, there, everywhere. Getting driver’s licenses, the farmer’s market (we’ve found local providers for meat and eggs, yay!), a bank, finding the library (which is better than Macomb, but not as good as Jonesboro), figuring out where everything is. The kids are sick of the heat and the car. Thankfully, the place we rented is in a neighborhood that has a pool (there are two houses for sale in this neighborhood, and the pool is a big incentive to stay) and we’ve visited every day this week. Without that, we’d all be grumpier than we are. I’ve realized that over the five years we’ve lived in smaller towns, I’d become accustomed to that pace of life. Sometimes I’ve felt overwhelmed; swamped by the sheer size of things around here. Then there’s just having four kids around all day at the end of the summer. It’s time for school to start (and thankfully, it does, next week) — they’re at each other’s throats for the littlest things.

Perhaps all this influenced my opinion of Look Homeward America, by Bill Kauffman. I found it grumpy, sarcastic, and downright mean. I don’t mind sarcasam, and at times Kauffman was funny, but too often I thought he dissolved into arrogance and meanness. His basic philosophy is the same as Crunchy Cons, but where Dreher was doing his best to convince readers that his ideas were worth something, Kauffman holds contempt for those who don’t agree with him. Or, at least that’s the way it read to me. He may have been trying to convince people to be “front porch anarchists and reactionary radicals” but fell way short of the mark.

There was one chapter that I liked: the anti-war, Wendell Berry one. But then, it’s probably because I like Wendell Berry and am a pacifist already. So, it really wasn’t a stretch for me to appreciate his point here. But the rest of the time…

Then again, I could be giving this book the fuzzy end of the lollipop — it has been a stressful couple of weeks.