However Long and Hard the Road

I picked this one up off our shelf of Church books one morning when I couldn’t sleep. I think I needed the boost Elder Holland gives in it. For all it’s worth, However Long and Hard the Road, by Jeffery R. Holland is essentially an extended pep talk: You can do it, keep it up, try harder, don’t give up. Which is something I really needed to hear. That, and to be reminded that everyone has trials and they’re there to make us stronger.

A much-needed (re)read for me.

America’s Women

Every so often, I read a non-fiction book that entertains me while it educates. America’s Women by Gail Collins was one of those. It’s a basic portrait of women’s lives from pre-colonial times to the present. Yes, she highlights the women who made names for themselves — Elizabeth Stanton, Abigial Adams, Annie Oakly, Eleanor Roosevelt — but this book is so much more than that. It’s a view of what life was like for a Puritan woman, or a Victorian woman, or a slave woman, or an immigrant woman. It made me very glad that I didn’t give birth in the early 19th Century. I admired those who endured hardships, who tried to make the world a better place. It reminded me of the need to keep journals and correspondence with other women. Most of all it made me proud to be a woman. An excellent book.

Seven Days of Possibilities

Seven Days of Possibilities: One Teacher, 24 Kids and the Music that Changed Their Lives Forever, by Anemona Hartocollis is the (true) story (I don’t read much non-fiction, thought I’d mention that this one is) of Johanna Grussner. She’s a singer from Aland — an island off the coast of Finland and Sweden — who moved to America to go to school and ended up teaching music at PS 86 in the Bronx. The title gives the book high expectations, but it’s not that pretentious. I liked it — it was an interesting story of how one person can affect the lives of many, especially if she has the will and the means — but the writing style bugged me. It’s not exactly something I can put my finger on; I just didn’t like the way Hartocollis put the story on paper. It’s a decent story though.

Non-Fiction Books

The Dressmaker of Khair Khana
Rammer Jammer Yellow Hammer
A Thousand Days in Tuscany
A Gift From Childhood
Mom: A Celebration of Mothers from StoryCorps
The Natural History of the Senses
India Calling
King of Bollywood
The Disappearing Spoon
The Lincolns
Same Kind of Different as Me
Guests of the Sheik

2010:
Claudette Colvin: Twice Toward Justice
Nine Parts of Desire
Ugly as Sin
Dance With Them
Nurture Shock
The Waiter Rant
The Frog Scientist
Eat, Pray, Love
Confections of a Closet Master Baker
The New York Regional Mormon Singles Halloween Dance
Marching for Freedom
Open: An Autobiography
Charles and Emma: The Darwins Leap of Faith
Eats, Shoots & Leaves
The Year My Son and I Were Born

2009:
Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters
Oracle Bones
Trail of Crumbs (DNF)
Mission Control, This Is Apollo
From Cover to Cover
Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Program that Works
The Prince
My Life in France
Why Darwin Matters
Girl Force
Don’t Call Me a Crook! (DNF)
We Are the Ship
The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down
The Sharper Your Knife, the Less You Cry
The Diary of a Young Girl
So Many Books, So Little Time
Banker to the Poor (DNF)
Somewhere in Heaven
A View from Jerusalem
Becoming Jane Austen
The Four Agreements
The Geography of Bliss
A Year in the World

2008:
Founding Mothers
John Adams
84 Charing Cross Road
The Glass Castle
Apples and Oranges
Marie-Therese: Child of Terror
The Orchid Thief
Born Standing Up: A Comic’s Life
Totto-Chan: The Little Girl at the Window
My Life as a Furry Red Monster
First Kiss (then tell)
The Year of Living Biblically
If Mama Don’t Laugh, It Ain’t Funny
Omnivore’s Dilemma

2007:
The Royal Road to Romance
The Color of Water
An Embarrassment of Mangoes
Mama Makes Up Her Mind and Stop Dressing Your Six-Year-Old Like a Skank
Eight Feet in the Andes
The Outermost House
Reviving Ophelia
Girls Gone Mild
The Redemption of Love
You Can’t Get There from Here
Around the World in 80 Days
The Art of the Common Place: The Agrarian Essays of Wendell Berry
The Life and Times of the Thunderbolt Kid
Climbing the Mango Trees

2006:
Plain and Simple
Manhunt: The 12-Day Chase for Lincoln’s Killer
Julie and Julia
The Man Who Ate Everything
Look Homeward America
Crunchy Cons
Enslaved by Ducks
Three Cups of Tea
Home Buying for Dummies
The Five Love Languages of Children
When in Rome
American Jezebel
Talk to the Hand
No god but God
Candy freak
Journey from the Land of No/Cursed by a Happy Childhood

2005:
Tales of a Female Nomad
A Girl Named Zippy
Wild Swans
Early Bird
Sixty Million Frenchmen Can’t Be Wrong
Riding the Bus with My Sister: a True Life Journey
Under the Tuscan Sun
Holy Cow
Garlic and Sapphires
Setting the World Ablaze
Glimpses into the Life and Heart of Marjorie Pay Hinckley
The World of King Arthur and His Court
The Road from Coorain
The Mommy Myth
However Long and Hard the Road
Baghdad Without a Map
America’s Women
Seven Days of Possibilities
Storyteller’s Daughter
Ladies of the Lake

Non-Fiction Potpourri: Sex, Freedom, Econcomy and Community; Deadly Persuasion; On Paradise Drive; How the Irish Saved Civilization; Miles from Nowhere; Nickel and Dimed; On the Rez; Queen of the Turtle Derby; Schools we Need

Biographies/Memoirs: Life and Death in Shanghi, Mormon Enigma, Tender at the Bone, Hunger of Memory, On the Other Side of Heaven, In the Fire of Our Faith, Broken Music, A Hope in the Unseen, The Lobster Chronicles, The Right Stuff, White Christmas

Improvement Books: Bonds that Make Us Free, Reading Magic, Mommy I’m Scared, $100 Holiday, Unplug the Christmas Machine

Bill Bryson Books: I’m a Stranger Here Myself, Walk in the Woods, In a Sunburned Country, A Short History of Nearly Everything, Lost Country, Notes from a Small Island

Top 10 Non-Fiction
Non-Fiction Reject Pile

Non-fiction Potpourri

Books with no other place to go….

Sex, Economy, Freedom and Community, Wendell Berry
A book that is enjoyable, thought-provoking, sometimes challenging (such as his defense of the tobacco industry or attacks on “modern Christianity”) but always interesting and worth reading. It’s my belief that everyone, at one point or another, should read Wendell Berry.

Deadly Persuasion, Jean Kilbourne
An important book for women to read. It discusses the impact advertising has on women in society and what to do about it. It made me more aware as a person, and especially as a woman.

On Paradise Drive, David Brooks
An interesting little book about American?s drive, no passion really, to make things “better” for the “future”. I expected more, though there was some food for thought.

How the Irish Saved Civilization, Thomas Cahill
A good solid, interesting piece of Irish history.

Miles from Nowhere, Dayton Duncan
I got this for Russell our first Christmas together; it’s taken me this long to get around to reading it. An excellent place book about life in the “contemporary frontier” in counties that have less than 2 people per square mile. A good read.

Nickel and Dimed, Barbara Ehrenreich
An upper-middle-class woman writes about her experiences with trying to live on minimum wage. A completely false set-up, (and a very liberal take) but her stories are interesting nonetheless.

On the Rez, Ian Frazier
Part of my on-going search for good travel/place books. An interesting portrait of life on an Indian Reservation in South Dakota.

Queen of the Turtle Derby and Other Southern Phenomena, Julia Reed
Not a great book, but there were several essays that just had me rolling. Ah, it’s fun to live in the South.

Schools We Need and Why We Don’t Have Them, E. D. Hirsch
An provocative book on national curriculum and standards in the public schools, though it was a bit dry for my taste.

Biographies/Auto-biographies/Memoirs

I’m not one who enjoys reading biographies or autobiographies. I usually find them dry and boring. Hence, I don’t read them very often. Here are the one’s I’ve managed to get through:

Life and Death in Shanghai, Nien Chang

An excellent book on her life during the Cultural Revolution written by a woman who spent 7 years in prison because of false accusations during Mao’s time.

Mormon Enigma: Emma Hale Smith, Linda King Newell and Valleen Tippets Avery

A well-written and accessible peace of scholarship. Newell and Avery are thorough in their research and very eloquent in their writing. It was quite an interesting and informative book. Though I have to admit, ever since I’ve read this book, I’ve been looking (though admittedly not very hard) for a decent biography on Eliza R. Snow.

Tender at the Bone, Ruth Reichel

Her autobiography as told through food. Yummy. She’s written a “sequel”, but I have yet to read that one.

Hunger of Memory: The Education of Richard Rodriguez, An Autobiography, Richard Rodriguez

Challenging to read because of what he writes. Though, honestly, I read this so long ago that I don’t remember why.

On the Other Side of Heaven and In the Fire of our Faith, James Groberg

It’s been a while since I’ve read a Church book. I really enjoyed Heaven; his missionary experiences in Tonga were incredibly interesting and faith promoting. Fire was okay; it was about his experiences as mission president mostly. I enjoyed his take on being a single missionary in Tonga better than him being a mission president.

Broken Music, Sting

I’m a sucker for anything Sting, and I justified this one by checking it out rather than buying it. That said, he really is a good writer, and I found myself genuinely interested (rather than being interested for trivia’s sake) in the story he was telling.

A Hope in the Unseen, Ron Suskind

This was a well-written, objective (as possible), intriguing book on one boy’s journey from a terrible high school in Southeast DC to the Ivy League (he got into Brown). It opens ones eyes (without being preachy) to the ills of the public school system and, conversely, the triumphs of one person as he puts his mind to succeeding. It’s an challenging, and excellent, book.

The Lobster Chronicles, Linda Greenlaw

I thought this would be what I call a “place book”, but it turned out to me more of this woman’s memoir of one lobster season. Still, it was pretty fascinating. It made me want to read her other book about her experiences as a deep sea fishing boat captain. There’s also All Fishermen are Liars, which I didn’t like as much, but it had a couple of fascinating deep-sea fishing stories.

The Right Stuff, Tom Wolfe

I’m not sure if this really fits as “memoirs”, but since it’s about the early space flight program and the fly boys that were part of it, it’ll work. I’m not a huge fan of Tom Wolfe (I tried reading Bonfire of the Vanities but didn’t get very far, and haven’t attempted anything else of his), but I loved this book. It’s so totally over the top, and full of lots of little bits of triva and information about both the space program and the Air Force pilots, that it was a totally enjoyable read.

White Christmas, Jody Rosen

A fascinating look at Irving Berlin, his most famous song and the impact it had on both popular music (of the time) and the Christmas season.

Improving Your Life

Bonds that Make Us Free, C. Terry Warner

Given to us by a friend of Russell, this book really is a “selfless help book”. It’s all about moving outside of oneself and becoming more aware of treating other people as people rather than as objects of our own invention. I know I’m not doing the book justice by writing this; it truly needs to be read. I wish I could say it changed my life; it did change my perspective and I’m working on the life-change. A very powerful book.



Reading Magic, Mem Fox

This book reaffirmed my love of reading to my kids (and my love of children’s books) and helped me see what I’m doing right (reading lots to them) and wrong (I would sit with Megan and make her sound out words rather than allowing her to catch the “spirit” of reading) in teaching my children to read. Not a hard book to read, but an important one.

Mommy, I’m Scared, Joanne Cantor

I got this book because I thought it would give me some tips on how to deal with Megan’s fear of movies. Instead, it gave me insights as to why she’s scared. The tips? Essentially, let your children avoid anything scary until they get older. Good enough.

$100 Holiday, Bill McKibbon

An idealist’s look at Christmas and how to make it simpler and more meaningful. An interesting history of Christmas and an interesting case for making Christmas less commercial and more spiritual, more family/friend/community-oriented and more fun and relaxed. Worth reading.



Unplug the Christmas Machine, Jo Robinson and Jean Coppoch Staeheli

Good, practical book for Christmas organization.

The Road From Home

Before they moved at Christmas, my good friend Janice gave me a gift certificate to Books-a-Million, on the condition that I buy a book that helps remind me of her. I had a hard time coming up with one; our reading tastes don’t always coincide: she enjoys mostly historical fiction, non-fiction, and biographies. I don’t usually. I looked through the store, and stumbled across The Road From Home, by David Kheridan. It’s the true story of his mother, an Armenian living in Turkey in the early 1900s and her personal experience with the Armenian massacres by the Turkish people. It’s a powerfully simple book. It’s written from his mother’s (Veron’s) point of view, and her simple faith and hope that got her through all the terrible times she experienced. Yes, she was one of the lucky ones: she survived, though her siblings and grandfather died of cholera, her mother died of grief, her father had a heart-attack while working for the Turks and she saw her cousins killed by a bomb. So, life for her was no picnic in the park. Still, I was humbled and awed by her faith, her perseverance and cheerfulness in the face of adversity. I’m sure Janice would enjoy my selection, too.

Non-Fiction Reject Pile

Okay — I read most of these a while ago… take everything with a bit of a grain of salt. Sometimes a bad mood or a bad day can affect how I react to a book.



Is Jesus a Republican or Democrat?, Tony Campolo (Possibly because I was reading this while I was 9 months pregnant with my daughter Caitlyn…)

Philistines at the Hedgerow, Steven Gaines (I just don’t care that much about the Hamptons. )

Blue Latitudes, Tony Horwitz (The information on Captain Cook was good, but it’s hard for me to have respect for an author who spends about 90% of the book either drunk or drinking.)

Angela’s Ashes, Frank McCourt (I picked it up because of the buzz, and I just didn’t get why this was supposed to be so great.)

Mothers who Think, Camille Peri and Kate Moss (Feminist mothering schlock.)

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Robert M. Pirsig (I only read the first part, and found that this was not a travel book. I felt betrayed.)

12,000 Miles in the Nick of Time, Mark Jacobson (It was an okay memoir of a family’s travels in Southeast Asia and the Middle East, but I thought he spent too much time ruminating about his teenage daughters and not enough on what they saw.)

Live From New York, Tom Shales (If you have fond endearing memories of Saturday Night Live you might be more interested in the sordid lives of those who were on the show that I was. I also find oral histories hard to be consistently interested in..)

Me Talk Pretty One Day, David Sedaris (He’s not as funny in print; he’s better when he reads his stuff.)

My 10 Most Favorite Non-Fiction Books

I try to read non-fiction on a fairly regular basis, so I don’t feel like I “escape” too much. My favorite non-fiction books, I call “place” books. They’re not really travel books, but more about the author’s experiences in a certain place or places.

  1. Reading Lolita in Tehran, Azar Nafisi: An interesting reflection by a professor of English Literature at several universities in Tehran, Iran. She finally quit teaching at the universities and formed her own special discussion group: a hand-picked circle of women devoted to literature. The book reflects upon several of the works they read from Lolita to Pride and Prejudice, as well as dealing with the author’s experiences during the revolution in Iran during the 1980s. Fascinating read.
  2. Seabiscuit, Laura Hillenbrand: An excellently written history of the horse Seabiscuit, his owner, trainer and jockey and their experiences in becoming the most popular racing horse in the country during the 1930s. (A good movie, too.) I learned a ton about horse racing, jockey life and about how three men and a good horse can make their dreams come true. Excellent book.
  3. The Beggar King and the Secret of Happiness, Joel ben Izzy: I loved this book. I loved the stories he told (I love stories), I loved the way he told his own story, and I loved the journey he took. In a nutshell, it’s about finding happiness where we are at rather than where we want to be. He realizes there is no such thing as “perfect” happiness, and that we need to be happy with whatever life deals us. A wonderful little book.
  4. Garlic and Sapphires, Ruth Reichl: An absolutely delicious, entertaining, interesting look at her time as the restaurant critic at the New York Times. Delightful.
  5. The Price of Motherhood: Why The Most Important Job is Still the Least Valued, Ann Critteneden: This wasn’t a comfortable book to read for me; I often felt like she was challenging – and possibly disagreed with– the decision I, and many other women, made to stay home with the kids. That said, challenging isn’t necessarily bad. I’m putting this here because it spawned a lot of passionate discussion, and discussion is always good.
  6. A Trip to the Beach, Melinda and Robert Blanchard: The story of a couple who move to Anguilla (rhymes with vanilla) in the West Indies and start up a restaurant there. It was a wonderful tale about starting over and life in the Caribbean.
  7. Tales of a Female Nomad, Rita Golden Gelman: Not only an incredibly fascinating and enlightening travel book, it’s an affirmation that anyone really can go out and do whatever she sets her mind to. Excellent.
  8. Emotional Intelligence, Daniel Goleman: I read this on a recommendation from my mom and I’m glad I did. It’s a very scientific book, and therefore sometimes difficult to read, but it’s an excellent book. I learned a lot about relationships and how to handle conflict in a more “emotionally mature” way. Something everyone should read.
  9. America’s Women, Gail Collins: Every so often you read a good historical survey. This was one. It was fascinating, and enlightening and enjoyable all at once. Great read.
  10. Eats, Shoots, & Leaves: A No-Tolerance Guide to Punctuation, Lynne Truss: I have never had so much fun reading about punctuation. An excellent book. Sticklers unite!